It's not because we read a lot of books 📚, attend ð‘ð‘™ð‘’ð‘›ð‘¡ð‘¦ of conferences, or follow ð‘ð‘™ð‘’ð‘›ð‘¡ð‘¦ of programs that everything is going great in our lives 🤩.
Who here 🤚 has a bunch of purchased books they haven't started reading yet, or many online courses started but never finished, etc., etc.?
We all do it, and sometimes we go through it all, but the changes may not be as significant as we envision.
On one hand, it's because it keeps us busy ðŸ‘·â™‚ï¸ dealing with all these courses, books, ð‘ ð‘Žð‘›ð‘ supporting our constant pursuit of knowledge.
Firstly, maybe it's not even aware of what is essential for it.
Or even if it knows, it chooses not to ð§ð¨ð ððšð¤ðž ðšðœðð¢ð¨ð§ 🙈.
But that's okay; we all have a bit of the avoiding nice guy in us, some more than others.
It's quite useful when we want to escape ðŸƒâ™€ï¸ from awkward situations, like that meeting we don't want to attend, and we take a detour (I have reporting; I need to finish something).
But when it prevents us from living what we would like to experience, that's when we can make contact with it.
I reassure you; we don't see it most of the time...
Hello, avoiding nice guy, are you there?
Show yourself!
Venturously ðŸ€,
Carmen
