As long as you accept that you are just an option for someone and not a priority, you are giving that person full power over your life.
He/she may continue to play with you, and you are unlikely to end up having a serious relationship with this person.
It is disrespectful to yourself to give up your full power for the benefit of someone else by agreeing to be an option.
This is valid for both men and women.
How do you know you are only an option?
- When that person is only available to you when they want to. You are not a priority for her/him, you are just an option that he/she knows he/she can turn to, in the absence of other momentary options.
- When that person allows themselves to treat you disrespectfully, they are hurting you, because to them that doesn't mean much because they have other options.
- Maybe he/she already told you that he/she is not interested in a serious relationship and that you continue the relationship with him/her or maybe you were promised the whole sky, but it's been a long time since then and her/his promises have not been kept
- Because you hope / pray for things to change, for the person to change their behavior, to make you a priority. But this doesn't happen.
If that person doesn't really want you, accept that and respect yourself more.
Never accept that you are just an option for someone, don't get stuck in a situation that you know will get you nowhere.
You can choose today to take back the power over your life and become the most important person in the world to you.
The one you will spend the rest of your life with, this wonderful person who exists deep inside you.
If you need to be accompanied in this process of coming back to yourself, you've come to the right place.
You can contact me now.
